tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post115637802750956633..comments2024-03-22T14:30:53.568-04:00Comments on Pondering.......: I Know What You Need...Jeanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1160176516450890312006-10-06T19:15:00.000-04:002006-10-06T19:15:00.000-04:00gs......well, actually.....no.gs......well, actually.....no.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1160066422592891832006-10-05T12:40:00.000-04:002006-10-05T12:40:00.000-04:00A Fuck Buddy?? Has this position been filled?A Fuck Buddy?? Has this position been filled?GalacticallyStupidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03519672744413289122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1159093534922061202006-09-24T06:25:00.000-04:002006-09-24T06:25:00.000-04:00aspergantus - ha!aspergantus - ha!Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1159058209989287132006-09-23T20:36:00.000-04:002006-09-23T20:36:00.000-04:00Right on!!!Right on!!!AspergantuShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02091277897019508739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1158288541926553442006-09-14T22:49:00.000-04:002006-09-14T22:49:00.000-04:00Valerie - I think many go through a time of lowere...Valerie - I think many go through a time of lowered standards until we remember to like ourselves again.<BR/>and, I agree...the companionship is terribly important.<BR/><BR/>Glad you visited here...hope you come back.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1158251497095041462006-09-14T12:31:00.000-04:002006-09-14T12:31:00.000-04:00I tried to lower my standards and I am only eight ...I tried to lower my standards and I am only eight months into this trek of being single again.<BR/><BR/>It didn't really work, I can't make them go low enough to find a partner. The willing ones are too low and the higher ones are unwilling. <BR/><BR/>I can't even think about years yet.<BR/><BR/>Even a fuck buddy had to like me back a little before I could be comfortable enough to get naked with them. <BR/><BR/>Anyway, I'm totally surprised at my ability to do without partner sex. I think I have set a record for me. <BR/><BR/>So much of what I miss isn't the sex anyway. It's the team work, the companionship and the conversation...<BR/><BR/>Seeking<BR/><BR/>Found you through walking on alligators, found him through 2996 and his comment on my blog.Valerie - Still Riding Forwardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15148433989184665687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157869206922215442006-09-10T02:20:00.000-04:002006-09-10T02:20:00.000-04:00Nea - It's obvious you are an understanding and ca...Nea - It's obvious you are an understanding and caring woman.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157851399644817052006-09-09T21:23:00.000-04:002006-09-09T21:23:00.000-04:00It is a difficult area to discuss between us, with...It is a difficult area to discuss between us, without causing angst......we have had problems in that area for a very long time, at first didn't know it was health related. When we were married he was already 50 and well on his way to the medical problems that eventually almost killed him, at first we did much cuddling, but I was young, and when you get your engine running, to be told no, not now, I can't, or I don't want to, is often just rejection. We had Nick, (a miracle, I can tell you) and then he just StOPPED, everything, it was his choice. Then we found out he only had 15percent blood flow in his body. Nothing was working, things that were really needed including the lungs and heart.<BR/><BR/>People say, Oh a heart attack doesn't stop you....well, all I can say is everyone isn't the same. In my husbands case, he has congestive heart failure, high blood pressure, low thyroid, anemia, and several other problems. He is on eight medications, the combination makes it IMPOSSIBLE....and he never was what you would call a sex driven individual. Now, he just wants rest and peace. And I give him his space, it is what he wants.<BR/><BR/>Does he want to cuddle, I really don't know, I have never refused, but I have never been asked. I think it is way down on his list of things he needs. Who knows. Everone isn't the same.Neomahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483213915316279993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157338730264459092006-09-03T22:58:00.000-04:002006-09-03T22:58:00.000-04:00Boneman - yes, I believe it is possible.Livey - We...Boneman - yes, I believe it is possible.<BR/><BR/>Livey - Welcome dear lady!Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157323314680336922006-09-03T18:41:00.000-04:002006-09-03T18:41:00.000-04:00edible candy Depends????edible candy Depends????bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01615987464724590203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157321496388582022006-09-03T18:11:00.000-04:002006-09-03T18:11:00.000-04:00Oh I so Know What You Mean!Oh I so Know What You Mean!Northwoods Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06700271652259176503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157320537014703802006-09-03T17:55:00.000-04:002006-09-03T17:55:00.000-04:00Parts is parts, girls. Not having had a heart atta...Parts is parts, girls. Not having had a heart attack, though, makes it all too easy t'say where it might not really be that way.<BR/><BR/>Is it possible t'have a relationship with a special person, perhaps with not as much dick while still close and warm?<BR/>I suspect that a bit dense-minded, but, fer the last eighteen years, while definately missing sex with another person, I miss more tha warmth of her bare back on my chest and stomach.<BR/>Sometimes something would come up, and she would turn gently to me and say, not now, Bowman. I have to go to work.<BR/><BR/>OK, well, I don't miss EVERYTHING, but, you get my drift, don't you?<BR/><BR/>And, look at you, Jean! You DO have a sidebar list going!<BR/>COOL JEWEL!bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01615987464724590203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157272634280695152006-09-03T04:37:00.000-04:002006-09-03T04:37:00.000-04:00Nea - in your case, my response to your comment wa...Nea - in your case, my response to your comment was insensitive. I apologize.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Sgtsmartass - You are right, of course. You are very kind to take the time to visit here.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157257098469124082006-09-03T00:18:00.000-04:002006-09-03T00:18:00.000-04:00haha, well......my husband had heart surgery abou...haha, well......my husband had heart surgery about six years ago, now the Dr.'s have him on so darn much medication that it has pretty much taken a toll on all of that. Things are not very dependable..as he puts it.haha but it is okay, no pressure on him.Neomahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483213915316279993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157165460543940742006-09-01T22:51:00.000-04:002006-09-01T22:51:00.000-04:00Nea - sometimes "that part" just needs some gentle...Nea - sometimes "that part" just needs some gentle encouragement.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157085612486483292006-09-01T00:40:00.000-04:002006-09-01T00:40:00.000-04:00Like most of us women, we start off thinking we d...Like most of us women, we start off thinking we don't need a man and then end up saying well, we could use a few of their working parts. Well, one anyway..... haha.......sign, the men that I know, have very few working parts, including that one.......Neomahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483213915316279993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157069471213983442006-08-31T20:11:00.000-04:002006-08-31T20:11:00.000-04:00boneman - it means "no worries" silly man.boneman - it means "no worries" silly man.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1157065889945080272006-08-31T19:11:00.000-04:002006-08-31T19:11:00.000-04:00In like flint?cool city....better'n m'contest.In like flint?<BR/><BR/>cool city....better'n m'contest.bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01615987464724590203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156935028012588692006-08-30T06:50:00.000-04:002006-08-30T06:50:00.000-04:00Liquidplastic - welcome!Liquidplastic - welcome!Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156895134998637222006-08-29T19:45:00.000-04:002006-08-29T19:45:00.000-04:00Sometimes us long-marriage chicks need a good fuck...Sometimes us long-marriage chicks need a good fuck-buddy. Honesty --- how refreshing! Found you via a link left at Lady Wordsmith. Glad I followed it.Linda Jones Malonsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08717614683200565056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156892881353904712006-08-29T19:08:00.000-04:002006-08-29T19:08:00.000-04:00Boneman - you are "in like flint".Boneman - you are "in like flint".Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156861031516909282006-08-29T10:17:00.000-04:002006-08-29T10:17:00.000-04:00Honesty...wow!Kind'a like sendin' a picture throug...Honesty...wow!<BR/><BR/>Kind'a like sendin' a picture through the "mails"....<BR/><BR/>Hope I fall in the later classification....<BR/>would at least like t'try, eh?bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01615987464724590203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156814016038563012006-08-28T21:13:00.000-04:002006-08-28T21:13:00.000-04:00john c - glad you came by and liked what you found...john c - glad you came by and liked what you found....good 'ol Eric...:)Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156788223434993872006-08-28T14:03:00.000-04:002006-08-28T14:03:00.000-04:00found this via SWG...loved the thoughts and poems....found this via SWG...loved the thoughts and poems...will be back soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21084151.post-1156582251190436072006-08-26T04:50:00.000-04:002006-08-26T04:50:00.000-04:00Delftsman3 - makes sense to me... thank you for ta...Delftsman3 - makes sense to me... thank you for taking the time to visit here!Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.com